Das Ritual
Das Ritual / The Ritual is a Bulgarian short film from 2005 DVD collection Lost and Found, this particular short film was directed by Nadejda Koseva.
Das Ritual is about the generation differences between families that remain in their homelands and their child which has gone west. Georgi is getting married at Niagara Falls while his family has the wedding party back in Bulgaria. They communicate through telephone, the son’s a new cell phone and the mothers’ and old rotary dial phone.
Of this difference in culture and time, Koseva explained in the Lost and Found press kit (rougly translated from German) that,
I was too busy with the question on how the time and place can overcome history. I am convinced that there is a strong connection between people, a connection that can overcome distance and the course of time. Film has a lot to do with the handling of time. Dealing with geographic distances, however, is less explored. It concerns me as knowing, that my friends in New York go to sleep in this moment – or the idea that while I’m at home, someone else does something somewhere else entirely. Such considerations I wanted to highlight.”
The thing about time and place in this short film is that the viewer is not necessarily aware of the fact that the bridge and groom are not going to their own wedding party since they are on a different content entirely. The understanding of time is also messy here since Bulgaria is a solid seven hours off of the Eastern Standard Time at Niagara Falls. Yet this time difference is totally obscured by the much larger one, the time difference between the parents and their son. The mother sends over a pair of earrings that the bride is suppose to traditionally wear on her wedding day, and Georgi’s new wife does not wear them. But the parents will never know since in the portrait photos her ears are covered by her hair and Georgi’s hands. Likewise the parents have a very traditional wedding party, with circle dancing and two whole bands of musicians to play polkas. Georgi and his wife however are not participating in any traditional rituals themselves (outside the ritual performance that is marriage, and the vows) as they are having a destination / vacation wedding at Niagara Falls, being more tourist than perhaps anything else.
The warning here is that as the world changes, so do the people growing up in it and there is a great risk at to rituals as the younger generations might drop them and they will be lost forever.